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The Language of Fat
posted on Monday, April 21, 2008 @ 4:12 PM | permalink
"Do i look FAT in this?" by Jessica Weiner is a musssst read for people who say that excat word. I bet most people does, both boys and girls. Me? I'll always say it when everytime i try on a new top in the dress room with Bedah and she go rolling her eyes at me. Now now, i do admit you know! Hahahahaha. The writter claims that people who say that frequent question are not confident enough of themselves. Yes and no. Some people are confident in themselves but... To squeeze that confidence in a new top that they are not excatly comfy enough to wear and with that ultra bright shade of colour that are not their liking is something that simply means they need assurance and support from the people around them Woookey. You may say, if you dont like it, then why try it on in the first place. In this matter, the reason for it all is afraid of getting something new just in case people make in fun of you in it. Now you dont go frowning your eyebrows at me, just think about it. Dont you ever ask yourself am i fat in this dress?!? Sometimes, people use the "I feel fat" today phrase when they're down and under, scared, worried, .... Now that's not excatly what's its suppose to mean. They should convey whats bothering them deep down rather than that phrase. I find this quite true. Dont ya think so too?! Fat is NOT a language after all. Society these days are potraying skinny-thin-bones models as the hot babes in town. No wonder little kids are even paranoid to get fat. Young parents these days also potray "feeling fat" is not a good thing to their little kids without them even realising it. Lucky me, mum doesnt complain being fat and she doesnt encourage to stay fat either but to shed some weight is a good idea. Skinny may be pretty or handsome but is that all that is suppose to matter?! NO. You need to know the person inside and out before finding out they are reaaalllly beautiful or handsome as what they are. Conclusion; Anyone can be handsome or beautiful in their own way. I am practicing not to say it and to spread the joy. Wahahaha. The book's quite kekek and hilarious but you have to admit it, those bad habits are quite true after all. Go grab it, not only read it but practise it as well lah deeeeey. Hahahaha. Woaaah, what a view by me. Hahaha. ![]() _______________________________________ Anyways, tomorrow's EARTH DAY. So lets GO GREEN everyone. Recycle those plastic bags, styrofoam containers and turn off the lights when not using. Save Planet Earrrrrrrrrrth ;D If you're finding a job and am afraid to go alone, contact me. I'm looking for one too but i'll go if it suits me lah eh. Whahahaha. Annnnnnnnnnd, i shall say that i'm fucking in love. Hahaha. JaNnA xD |